How To Train Your Family To Support You?

how to improve your listening skillsShirin is an up and coming pop star that has been working with Step by Step Listening since July 2013.  Shirin is very focused on her dream and works with us to plan various tours and album releases. This video is just before her Asia tour in the summer of 2014. Like like all business owners she knew she had to keep herself motivated no matter what happens and like many businesses the music industry can be an emotional rollercoaster. With this in mind she started working with us to give her clarity and to maintain her confidence to make it happen. 

Shirin is also supported by a loving family and partner Mitch. Like many of us do Shirin as asked her family to hold her accountable only to discover she felt guilty rather than motivated when then checked in with her.

We have seen this time and time again with many clients, where they say something to their partner like “don’t let me eat biscuits”  and then when they try to stop them eating biscuits they feel angry and controlled.

It is very easy to say things like “I want you to nag me”, or “I want you to keep me on track” when in fact neither are what you want or need to motivate you.

Gaining clarity and understanding of you want is vital if you want to work at your best with those around you.

I hope this video encourages you to consider what questions you ask your support team to ask you and for you to be curious about what questions work and which don’t.

You can find out more about “How to do, delegate & ditch with confidence?”

About the Author – Sheryl Andrews – The Strength and Solution Detective

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Sheryl Andrews, Founder of Step by Step Listening, is well known for her fast speaking and highly motivational passion. But what many of you may not know is that in private behind closed doors she was also no stranger to challenging conversations, lapses in self belief and an overwhelming sense of not being good enough. Sheryl use to find it difficult to speak up and have her needs met despite the fact she could and would encourage everyone else to do exactly that. A series of 3 events in her personal life forced her to stop and learn how to take her own advice.

Today, Sheryl runs retreats and one to one sessions resourcing you to do more of what you love, delegate what you don’t and ditch the critic that says you can’t.

Sheryl openly shares an easy to adopt communication tool kit that will transform the way you think, feel and understand those around you. Sheryl will be your strength and solution detective until you have fully trained your inner critic and those around you, to listen in a way that motivates and inspires you.

Fancy a virtual coffee and chat, then please feel free to book a complimentary clarity and confidence session or check out the “How to do, delegate and ditch with confidence” free webinar.

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Sheryl Andrews, Founder of Step by Step Listening is well known for her fast speaking and highly motivational passion. But what many of you may not know is that in private behind closed doors she was also no stranger to lapses in self belief and an overwhelming sense of not being good enough. Sheryl use to find it difficult when criticised even when she knew they meant well and found it difficult to respond rather than react. A series of 3 events in her personal life exaggerated her emotional overwhelm and forced her to address this problem and conquer her sensitivity to criticism. Today she shares every day stories of every day people and inspires you to discover ways to gain clarity and confidence to change the way feedback and criticism impacts your performance.

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