How Do I Overcome Writer’s Block?
I imagine writers block like the author in the movie sat looking at the typewriter and nothing coming to mind. But mine wasn’t like that, in fact it rarely is.
Mine didn’t feel like a block it felt more like an inability to filter or block anything.
It was all coming out. I had the complete opposite of block, it was more like writing diarrhea. Sorry for that image, but it really did feel like it was pouring out and it felt like poo and my critic said as much. As soon as I notice my critic being critical I know it is worth checking in.
Who or what was I comparing myself against?
Why did I feel the need to say my writing was poo?
What I heard is that I had lost sight of why I was writing and whether this was the most important thing for me to do be doing today. It felt poo because I didn’t know if it was worth my time. That is always a good sign for me to stop and really listen to the story I am telling to identify if it is a story that serves me.
This is how I overcame writers block today:
Step 1 – Clarity
I asked myself the question: “What would you like to have happen?”
The answer today was: “I would like to write, short succinct and clear.”
Ah that was why it felt poo, it was everything but what I wanted. It was long, waffly and lacked purpose and structure.
I found myself meandering off into different lines of thinking and whilst they were all interesting for me, I was not convinced they were good for you the reader.
And then there was a little voice that I almost ignored again, that said I would like to paint, rest and listen to music. Now what you don’t know is that I am writing this on Tuesday and that is usually my day off. My day for connecting with my soul and tuning into what is working and what I would like to have happen and checking to see if anything has changed that means that I need to adjust my planned action.
Ah light bulb number two.
I was writing like it was for my own personal clarity and not for business. I often download and write from the heart on Tuesday. It is only for my viewing and to release emotions or stories that I would otherwise be unaware of.
That makes sense of why I was all over the place. My brain thought it was that kind of clarity download because of the day it is. I decided to listen to that inner critic and recognise I had worked 12 hours the day before and a little down time today was okay.
I realise now even from my picture I was wanting greater understanding of my direction and the green light would indicate that this was the right thing to be writing about.
As I followed this line of thinking I discovered that when I am writing for business my critic ‘expects’ the writing to be focused and on point.
It has to be aligned with the business and my overall marketing message.
It has to either be helping my existing clients or attracting them.
Step 2 – Confidence
What has worked before?
When I pondered what worked to keep me focused and point I usually have one word or one question to answer. I have set myself a limited word count, a limited time frame and a deadline. I also have a clear vision for my business that is up to date and I am clear on the direction I am taking the business and so I know this writing is aligned to the bigger picture.
Step 3 – Change
What has changed? If anything?
I realise now, that my coaching session at 6am that morning had turned my thinking on its head. Which is a good thing but I hadn’t got my head around how that was going to impact my vision for the business. And that was why my writing no longer felt aligned because I was aware that my business model was about to change and with it my message.
A great reminder that before I start writing I need to set myself up for success by having absolute clarity and confidence in what I want from my day.
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I trust this article if useful and would love to know:
What do you know now about writer’s block?
Writer’s block for you is like what?
What has worked to overcome writer’s block in the past?
If you haven’t got over writers block, perhaps consider how you have got unstuck or motivated or inspired before in any situation and notice if that process or model could help here.
I would love to hear from you.
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Sheryl Andrews, Founder of Step by Step Listening, is well known for her fast speaking and her passion to make things happen. But what many of you may not know is that in private behind closed doors she was also no stranger to lapses in self belief and an overwhelming sense of not being good enough.
That was until she learned the importance of being heard and asking for support. In her book she describes the step by step journey she took to learn how to manage her critic turning her overwhelm into clarity in 7 steps.
Sheryl now runs retreats that encourage you to really listen to what you need to work, learn and live at your best with others and the confidence to ask for those needs to be met.
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